Ep. 69: Keep Stroking That Ego (In Public)

All right, Lauren, in this episode we're gonna talk about public sex and having sex with vanillas. We're also gonna talk about what your ego needs to be a swinger and how you need to feed other people's ego. We're also gonna talk about us, the newest rising OnlyFans stars, and our newest movie, Top 0.0000077 OnlyFans movie. All right, Lauren, get off your phone.

It is time to start. This chair is getting squeakier and squeakier. I don't know what's happening to it, but it feels like I'm, uh, it feels like I'm on a unicycle. That's what it feels like.

It's breaking so much that I feel like I'm on a unicycle. I have to balance on it. Did you used to have a unicycle? No.

Have you ever tried a unicycle? No, I have. OK. One day my dad brought one home from work and it was like, hey kids, they got suck.

This is weird because all I hear from you are stories about how you were horrible on a bike and even your parents had once told me about how you crashed on a bike and you were just a horrible bike rider. To this day, uh, I still have a really hard time getting you on a bike. But you at some point in your life had a unicycle. I didn't have it.

He just brought it like one of the guys at work brought it to work. Your dad stole a unicycle. No, he's like, I'm gonna bring it home for a day and bring it back the next day. That's called stealing.

No, I borrowed it and he brought it home and we like tried it out. It's really hard from a person who can't even ride a bicycle with two wheels, one wheel is like what I mean. Mastered the two wheels first and then you go down to one. That's how it usually works progressively downwards.

But anyway, I just wanted to see if you ever went on one because I actually did and it's pretty difficult. No, I, uh, I've never been on a unicycle, but the point of the story is my chair is broken. I get a new one. Yeah, so I need a new chair.

Listener, if you want to go on my Amazon list, if it doesn't exist, I will put some chairs in there. Uh, how are you? You look mighty tan. Thank you.

I am a little bit tanner than my normally gothy self. Yeah, you really got out of that goth phase. I, you know, I'm trying new things, Richard. You don't know.

We had planned finally getting around to that Q&A, the rest of that Q&A. The listener forgot about it already. No, the listener has been, they've been calling the hotline. Oh, that's right, I forgot.

They've been saying, hey, when are the rest of those Q&As? Coming out and I just keep saying the same thing. I say, damn, this line is hot. It's literally just a, it's just really temperature wise.

It's just, it's just hot. It's not even a phone line. It's just a bare wire. All the electricians just laugh at me and my electrician jokes.

We're big. We're big in the electric union. They all, they sit around and listen. But anyway, we're gonna do it.

Are you doing it or are you just gonna postpone it again? Here's the good news. We are gonna get to it eventually. Just not, not today, no, because we have something else planned for that, that particular part, but we're gonna do this one first, which is vacation sex.

We finally got like a little vacation in. I was telling people we're gonna go away for a few days. They're like, I'm not texting you. You fucking put your phone down.

I was like, oh my God, we're doing it. By the way, anybody out there who wants to go on their own vacation, their own sex-filled vacation with a beautiful beach. And beautiful sexing sensation, Lauren, October 17th to the 22nd. Still some seats available, not that it's on a plane or a roller coaster, but uh, it was sort of sold out and then not so sold out.

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It makes the group that much better and it just, it's sort of grown that way and that's what I think makes the group so special. And having a good time together. Yeah, it's hard to explain to people who've never been how it affected people. I mean, you can go back and listen to the last episode and just hear the reaction from the people that we interviewed, but it's hard selling it when you're the seller, right?

But I just want everybody to experience it. So make sure you check it out before it's gone. Of course, there's 6 months until the event. It will sell out.

We really want you there. And if it says sold out, um, by the time you get there, just press get on the waitlist because we will be. An overflow hotel eventually and we will reach out to you. Get on that waiting list because people die.

They happen. No, I don't mean to get bleak, but it's life. Death is a part of life and you don't need to, you don't need to grieve about it. What you need to do is get on with your life and go to a party.

We'll have a moment of silence while we're there. It'll probably be drug induced, but the point is, is we want you to come there and have a lot of fun. And the good news is last time we had sex. as many people as we can, so the odds that you blowing a stranger are pretty good.

You know, it's probably gonna be our next big vacation, so go on vacation with us for now, talk about the vacation that we just had, but we took a few days off, we went north and we found some beautiful beaches and we took our camera with us and we just had nonstop sex with one another. We would have had it with other couples as well, we just couldn't find anybody and we did. That to put it on the OnlyFans because we've been just ignoring the OnlyFans for quite some time. We tried to find any position, sexual position that we could fit in and do it, did it all up.

So our goal was to have semi-public sex or have at least a really good background to it. Does certainly does not call attention to yourself when you're carrying like the beach bag, the beach towel, and a tripod. Yeah, we were trying to get caught, so we went to these Airbnbs, and this place is just a really, really tiny little town, not a really touristy town, and we went to these Airbnbs slash sort of hotels. I don't really know what to call them, really, really tiny towns.

And we got to the first place from the photos, I thought it was gonna be great. I was like this place. Really sexy. Did you get the one with the plunge bowl, honey?

I was like, yes, I did. Yeah, I made sure, honey, get the one. Hold on, squeaky squeaky. I know.

Is that your bones? It's my, I'm, I'm doing unisex while I'm recording. It's the squeaking of the wheel. Got a WD4 do that.

I said, Did you get the one with the plunge pool? Yes, honey, because we are gonna fucking that. We're gonna fuck in the. People are gonna walk by and they're gonna be like, look at those people.

I'm gonna be like look at me fucking right now that's the image you got in your head always right so we get there we walk in and The room isn't big enough for our luggage, so you can get in the room, but you can't actually put your bags in the room and walk because there's no place to set your bags down. They have to go on the floor. There's no other place. There's like one little table.

It is the size of a king bed and then 1 inch, and then, and then that's it. So I was like, mm, all right, well, whatever. I'll, I'll still stay here. It's fine.

So let's go to that plunge pool. Jesus Christ, I mean, if you're an athlete and in pain and you need recovery, that's right, this is the place to go. So the football players use. They come to the tiny town, they get in the plunge pool.

You need an ice bath. This is the fucking place to go. I just stuck my finger in there. I was like, no fucking way, not gonna happen.

Temperature sensitive, Richard. Yeah, but why do we look at a picture and assume that that's a, that's an 85 degree because they make it look 85 degrees. Yeah, and it's like we should have learned this because when the last sensation. We had plunge pools.

Everyone got a plunge pool. You get a plunge pool. You get a plunge pool. Everybody gets a plunge pool.

And we knew this thing. It was like there's no heaters. There's no nothing, and it's obviously going to be in the shade because it's like on the balcony, and uh we just can't put two and two together because we think it's always going to be hot outside. Yeah, of course they have a plunge pool heater.

Of course they do. Why would they not plunge jacuzzi? What do you mean they don't have electricity in that town? But of course they have a plunge pool heater.

Yes, absolutely. So my plan starts falling apart immediately, right? I'm like, all right, I can't set bags down or really set up a tripod anywhere. I can't get into my little pool.

I'm like, Oh, this place kind of sucks. We're like, let's just fuck here, like open the windows as much as we can. Maybe somebody will walk by and watch us, right? We'll get caught, yeah, maybe, but it's in our room, so it's not like illegal or gross.

We're not out on the beach or on our balcony. Now. Here's the weird, like many others, there's an exhibitionist quality to me. I am both an exhibitionist and a voyeur, voyeur, voyeur, voyeur.

Do you have to say it with a French accent? No, I just think it's an extra syllable because there's so many vowels in there. Let's try it out. Let's take it for a walk.

You ready? Which one do you want me to do first? Um, French, please. I think I should do American first.

OK, OK. I am both an exhibitionist and a voyeur. Now I'm gonna try French. You ready?

I I am both an exhibitionist and a boy. That sounds a little weird. Well, you did the are weird. Like, what is that?

I can't do. You have to say, uh, you have to say, uh, what's another French word, uh, voye, voye, boy, boy. I am both an exhibitionist and a boye. Um, so, so I am both of those things, and there are a lot of people that are also both of those things.

I know this because I am a swinger educator. And when we take those courses at ASA, we learn how common certain things are. Yeah, this is one of your continuing education courses that you did. We do it at our seminars.

We always talk about 50% of people admit to having a sex in public public experience. 50%, 10% of that 50% have had sex in public, 10% of that 50%. It's a pretty high number. So half have the fantasy in 10.

50% are executors. No, no, no, no, 50% claim that they have had a sexual experience in public. That 10% have had actual intercourse. Oh, right, I forget there's other kinds in public.

Yeah, that's all the way from, from heavy kissing to blowjobs, hand jobs, everything else. But 10% of that have had, that's a pretty big number. How many people do have the fantasy of doing it? 1,300,000.

400. I have no idea. I have no idea. There is sort of this confusion around it because I've looked it up and I've tried to read about it.

I don't really know why, like researchers, doctors don't really know why, what the, the psychological thing about it is, but there's theories. They have theories about power. They have theories about ego. If I had to guess, I would say ego and validation.

That would be my guess. And how does that explain that to me as if I were a dog, Laurie. Who's a good girl? Who wants to learn about you?

Um, I would explain it to you like this if you were a child. Well, that's what I was gonna say, and I stopped myself. So that's why the dog came out. I'm like, why do people flash people?

Why do they have this sort of part of them? How does it relate to ego? Ego validation. I want to fill my ego by.

Showing people my junk. Yes, in a weird way, I am getting a reaction out of somebody, so that fills my ego in a twisted way by watching what kind of reaction I get. There are also some theories out there that it is a, a. Our thing that is it's not my thing, but that may be possible for others.

Now here's where it gets really, really strange for me. Let's put me in both positions, OK? If I'm walking by a couple and I see them having public, public sex, why can't I say public sex? I don't know.

Spit your gum out. May I say it in French. If I walked by two people and I saw them having public sex or something sexual in public, I know me. My reaction is to immediately like look away in a shy way, right?

That's how I, that's why I'm having a hard time understanding the ego part because I'm like, it seems, no, no, no, OK, go ahead. That's the other part that's the exhibitions part. The exhibitions part is the ego part. This could be.

At a resort, at a lifestyle resort, at a party or whatever, in a playroom, and I see a hot couple and they're doing it in public, my first reaction, as hot as they are, as interesting as it is, whatever it is, my first reaction is to look away, be respectful, look away, right? Don't be a creeper, right? Mine too. But these people are there because they want you to look, right?

They are in a position where they are obviously outside or in an area. where they want you to look to a certain degree. This goes back to our days where you and I fucked around on a public beach where you're like, get closer, not that close, you know what I mean? There's that fine line, right?

So it's like, it's like this weird thing where I'm like, what am I really expecting the audience to do if we are in fact caught? What am I actually expecting them to do? Oh, hello. Hi, you two.

Saw you up there. Thank you. Saw you up there. Fucking.

I just wanted to say great job. You know, from the back I watched you. Your side angles are good. I'm gonna go back.

Gonna get a chair, be back in 10 minutes. Uh, don't stop what you're doing. We all appreciate it, but I don't know what I expect, right? That's from the, the, the, the voyeur side, right?

But the exhibitionist side, this is what happens on the other side. And this is what happened this time. Every time somebody would come close, I'd be like, Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, stop, right, because I would get too afraid. And then I think about the people I've seen videos before on the porn channels.

I don't know if you know about this. They have websites out there where you can just watch porn 24 hours a day for free. No way. Yeah.

True story. I've seen these amateur porn exhibitionists, where they're on the beach or in the beach. Yeah, I love the beach ones. Couples are just going to town and someone's watching them.

They just, nothing stops them. They're like two dogs stuck together. They're not even looking at the people looking at them. They're just going to town like no, nothing exists around them.

Is that stray away from exhibitionism if you're just obli. Envious if people are watching because it does for me start to often thought that, but do they just give zero fucks and they're not exhibitionists and they're just like, I'm just fucking because it's an opportunity, right? Just happened to get a little sand in my vagina, but whatever. So while we're there doing our shoot, right, because basically we were on location shooting a feature film, Richard and Lauren Sex Vacation available OnlyFans premiered this month.

Is it on there now? Yeah, there's. So what, what I did this time because I'm not really the best at returning messages and people are like, do you have a PPV of this and that? I'm just like, listen, I'm just putting the shit up there.

It's just going to be, it's just on my wall. If you want to see it, you go there and you subscribe. All right, so basically what you're saying is just go to OnlyFans, pay your price, and just watch anything you want. Yeah, I'm, it's just, I don't know why I didn't do this in the first place, OK.

Alright, so go to OnlyFans and look at us sucking and fucking. Uh, also, I have to bring this up because it might be quite obvious to the listener. You might have heard a sound change. That is because our mixer was broken and we just got an Amazon delivery in the middle of recording and because I'm 12 and I have to open new toys.

I opened it, stopped recording, had to download the instructions, and pick up where we left off. So, I don't know if it's gonna sound the same, but if you if everything just changed, literally mid-sentence, you can understand why. I haven't really had enough time to go through it and figure everything out, but it either sounds way better or way worse. Uh, anyway, that's it.

All right, so going back to, uh, all about ego. This is ego in as far as, uh, the lifestyle and how ego has an effect or our ego of the ego in the lifestyle and how our ego affects the lifestyle and how that sentence can make sense if you're in the lifestyle. Our actions. And what we're gonna do in the future.

That's way better. That makes more sense, right? And this is specifically to the lifestyle. This is only about the ego filled of the standard North America thin coated swinger.

That's that particular sweet species, OK? That's who we're talking about here. Alright, so like when we go what we were just talking about like people fucking just like they're not even looking now this is what I have to point out to you. This is, this is what has happened before and this is where I get very, very confused.

We have been at a place where we're on a daybed or we've been at a beach or wherever and we've been going at it or we've been doing stuff, right? I've made a comment. I'm like they were watching the whole time and you look up and you're like, who? Like, what do you mean?

Who? The couple that's right across from us and you're like, oh, I didn't even know there was somebody there. So how are you affected by exhibitionism? Is it just not your thing?

Is it just not affect you in any way, shape or form? Are you that person that just goes along with it and just sort of blocks everything out? Yeah, I have to block everything out that is, I mean, I think I've gotten better. I have to block.

Stuff out that is really close to me because I feel that it doesn't allow me to sort of disappear into the act of what I'm doing with you. If I think about what's happening around me, I guess it isn't so much of a turn on. It just takes me out of myself and I start focusing on that. But what about specifically somebody watching?

It would be OK. Like, remember when the lifeguard stand used to be right outside room 77 and 78. I used to go out on the daybed there and I used to just like play with myself. That is like a game, right?

But that, but that, that I would be, isn't all exhibitionism sort of a game. I mean, we're talking about ego Phil. Isn't that the game? I guess when it comes to having one on one.

Sex with you in a public place. I am focused more on you and us and what I'm feeling than if it's a solo masturbation exhibitionism. I don't think I have the capability to focus in two places at the same time. So how many times per week would you say you go out alone and masturbate for strangers?

I mean. Let's just start how many times a day? That would be a day, maybe once. We'll be right back.

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But that is not something that you would probably do on your own, would you? No, definitely not. It's something that I do in a vacation setting or a sexcation. Would you ever do it on your own?

And by the way, to be fair, I don't know any woman, nor have I think I've ever met a woman or ever witnessed a woman alone masturbating. And we talked about this on podcasts like Number shrub that has started. Masturbating by herself, still waiting for it. To me, that's my unicorn.

Yeah, I know. No, I don't think I could do it just like, hey, I'm gonna go outside and masturbate for the maybe passerbyers. Me and 100 million other guys just raised their hand and said I could. I know that's the difference.

So is is exhibitionism when it's solo, is it solely a male thing, you think? No, I. I mean, I think guys are, I don't know, honestly, that's a really hard question, Richard. I feel like it may be um we ladies would have to overcome sort of a double standard on that to be feel free to go and just, I'm it's just going to go masturbate.

I think I'm about to blow your mind. Oh shit, go for it. When it comes to hiding behind a computer, hiding behind a screen, whether you're on Instagram. Whether you are on a site, it seems to me that when it comes to exhibitionism in the world, Twitter, Instagram, exhibitionism really falls onto the female side of filling that ego with photos online than it does to, to men.

But while in public, it really doesn't equate. So there's this difference between what is represented online, whether it's Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, or any of the. Those right? And the photos that we see, see, but the reality in the world, most are looking for those likes.

They're looking for that thirst trap, but majority are women using sexually provocative poses to get likes as much as men. OK. But when it comes to actually doing sexual deeds in public, I have never seen a woman in a trench coat in a subway. Well, think of it in terms of a woman in a sexy dress going to a club who's on the dance floor dancing first, a man or a woman?

I guess a woman. There you go. I think if you were to take, I think, I think the sexy photo thing is a whole another subject because I think people are doing everyone wants to be a model and everyone wants to be an actor. I think that has more to do with that.

So I'm gonna use the sexual movements in terms of dance at a club and hold on, survey says, well, no, the only reason is because I was very specific when I said this is the ego fill of the standard North American thin coated swinger. That is what we are specifically talking about here. We're not talking about Betty at the bar. You know, who's like, I'm gonna go square dancing tonight I'm gonna wear my, my short skirt.

Because all the, all the fellas are gonna look at me. I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about the swinger that goes to these lifestyle resorts and the parties, OK? It's the same gal who is taking the really, really provocative photos on the websites, but when they are at said parties, they are not so exhibitiony.

Oh the party. Oh, OK, OK, OK. I thought you're talking about the 20 million people on the planet using Instagram. No, I'm, I'm saying in this, in this swinger world that was very confusing.

I apologize. No, you did a good job of clearing it up. Thank you. Um, yeah, I do agree.

I think that that would go. Back to my original theory, which is there's a double standard for women being the instigators for exhibitionism in sexual activities in a public area. So like, if a woman was just like, I'm going to go just start fingering myself. God, I'm just kidding I sit on my chair.

And I don't think she would do it if she was gonna blow a guy. I think she would do that. I agree. I agree, but I also believe that like many, I've heard many, many stories, OK, as an ASA teacher, people come to me, they tell me their stories.

I have to charge them. I'm sorry. But I hear their stories, right, and a lot of them are like, you know, was anybody else in the room? Oh, I don't know.

I didn't even notice. They, they just block it out where you ask a guy the same story, they're like, was there anybody else in the room? There were 17 to start, 3 couples walked out, and then 2 couples replaced them, so we ended up with 15 couples. So it's like you're keeping track, your head's on a swivel just like, just like me.

As far as exhibitionism is a, a turn on or not, is it specifically a woman, but when she's with her partner? I don't know. Anyway, you don't have to answer that. It's just something that I wanted to bring up, but I have to move on because we only have so much time and I tend to go on and it only causes me more editing and then I'm sad and then I wanna quit the podcast.

All right, so another thing that we, uh, we did that was very ego filling and this, this ties into ego fill is we wound up in a situation where we were halfway through our vacation where we were taking a break from the sexting. Which you can see on OnlyFans or it's on sale right now and we went to, I'm still editing more video. I still have hours of editing to do. You're behind because you've been playing with your new toy, yeah, and it, and it has to, I have to masturbate between editing the videos too because I watch us and then I'm like it's a good jerk off and then finish the video.

And then, uh, so we were in the middle of our sexcation and we went and we went and had breakfast and we went to this little place and the, the, the place was full and, uh, we walked in there there was this couple sitting at this table and they were like, hey, you guys can sit with us. I hopefully I made them sound cool and cute because they were cool and they were jolly cute. They're like 30 something year olds, adorable. Now my first thought in my head because I am a North American thin skinned swinger is, hi, what are your names?

Of course, yeah, let's sit down babe, but I also have control of my feelings so I'm like, no thank you, it's a very, very thoughtful of you we'll just go sit in the back, um, thank you. And then I walk away and I go into the back and all the tables are full and we don't have a choice. No, we could just share it with some other couple, right? So I look at you, by the way, talk about twisting an arm.

I'm like, do you wanna go share a table with a really hot couple that just asked us, and you're like, Yeah, let's go back there. So we go back and I'm telling you we only saw one hot couple while we were there and it was these two. We sit down. I'm behaving myself like I am not at all flirting with these people.

No, you were straight up just, you know, having some casual conversation, talking about food, what they ordered it was so funny, which gift and a curse, how can I not be charming as hell. I mean it's, it's really hard, but I told the guy when we sat down I said do you mind if we share there are no tables back there he said no, no, no, of course, have a seat and I said this may be a little awkward for you guys because we are on our first date. I forgot you said that and uh he believed us through the entire thing. I love gullible people.

She did not. She was, she sort of laughed at him like, how could you believe that? And of course they're not on their first date with our wedding wedding rings on. Yeah, we're like, no, we've been together for 20 years.

That's why we're not even talking to one another. And he was like, oh, I thought you were gonna tell the truth. But um, they decided they wanted to have dinner with us. And still, I'm like, Because I go into ego again.

Now, one of the things about being in the lifestyle and being swingers and when you are of our species, an ego is going to a lifestyle party and having a couple engage with you, be attracted to you, and hook up with them. Ego fill is going on a, on a lifestyle site and having somebody respond to your message. Ego, there's a lot of ego that you find. But when you're out into the into the vanilla world, when you're a species that goes into a different terrain off your plane and into a different wilderness, right, and wander into the tundra of another holy shit, zebras are over here.

Oh, what is this species, right? And, and they. Give you attention that ego boost is like no other because you feel like you crossed this line of I don't know what it is, but it is fulfilling, right? That's one of the things that we sort of we sort of seek out like that's why people are like, oh flip vanillas, flip vanillas because it is satisfying in a way.

I, I don't know if they were flirting with us. I really don't know. But anyway, we had dinner with them. We were still being super vanilla with them all the way through dinner.

I only tried to make out with her twice. I didn't touch her. We didn't say anything. And then, and then they were like, Do you guys want to go have drinks?

And we're like. And then we were trying to analyze. Then we went through and started analyzing everything. It's like, OK, because that night she was just like touching me a little bit.

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And make sure to use code room 77 to get this beautiful $77 custom made bikini all the way down to $69. That's 77 to $69 and yes, we did that on purpose. And she was just kept grabbing my arm and in my head she was telling me how handsome I was, but I don't know if that ever happened. No, she wasn't doing that, but she was touching me a lot.

And again, you just don't know because us as as swingers make a lot of this stuff up in our heads, so you have to be careful as to what's going, what signals you're reading, and you get them crossed with being a swinger and just the normal world. In the swinger world and in the normal world they mean two very different things. We go to have drinks. Eventually it comes out.

They ask, what do you guys do for a living? And we tell them, and they were just not shocked at all, uh, just sort of interested, but they did not say, Great, let's go have sex. Um, let's subscribe to your OnlyFans. Yeah, so it was, it was, it was obviously, I mean, I would have obviously had sex with them.

Second, but, um, or at least just watch them have sex with. you Yeah, well, that would have been nice to have sex next to them, I think. I think it would have been an appropriate ask. I don't think any of this would have been appropriate at all.

Listen guys, I'm just gonna bargain with you. This is all we're gonna do. I'm gonna top it at this. We're just gonna have sex next to you, OK?

Where do you want to go? This is our final offer. The Airbnb we got, we had the first one, we moved out of that one because it was really small, but we got another one now, and it actually has two beds, OK? That wasn't on purpose because we didn't know we were gonna meet you.

All right? So this is what we're gonna offer you. We don't have sex with one another, we just have sex next to each other, and that is our final offer, and I'll throw in an undercoat for free. Final offer.

That's what I can offer, tax and tax included. TTNL TNL. Let's do it. You drive home tonight.

I mean, I don't know if they would have gone for that. I would say otherwise a good feeling with them wasn't like we went home and we were like, oh man, yeah, yeah, yeah. No, it's like it gives you that feeling of, well, we're relevant, we're entertaining, we're, you know, whatever that level of attractiveness. It may not be physical, but they were definitely attracted to us in a way that, you know, they liked our energy, they liked what we have to say they liked our dynamic with each other, you know, it was, it was an ego boost to just be like that was really nice to find people that enjoyed us then for sure fingers crossed no idea if they were attracted to.

To us sexually. I have no idea, but that does open up a question that I have not asked you. At any point, did you look at him or her and have any sexual thoughts about him or her? Her, her?

Yeah, really? Oh, she was so hot to me. She was really hot. Yeah, yeah.

He was really cute. But I immediately got a vibe from him that it was, he just was not as open as she was. And for whatever reason, I was really drawn into her energy. Like I was just like her.

I don't know. She was just, she had just had a very open, loving energy. And you know, I was just kind of like all kind of sucked up in there. And I was just like, I kept looking at her eyes and her smile and like, uh, I would just love to go down on you.

I mean, I was just like I could picture myself uh entering her. Every part of her, I was still like, I wonder if she'd let me come on her face. Probably not. I probably won't do that tonight, um, but him, I was absolutely like, yeah, I'd like, I'd like to see him fuck you.

Oh yeah, yeah, I just wanted to see him naked. I wanted to see her naked. I was equally attracted to both of them. He's gotta be really careful because he did think that's what I was sensing, yeah, yeah, especially in that situation when we brought it up, he said one little thing.

That was sort of a tell. He just said she knows what all of my fantasies are. She said she, I have a lot of fantasies. She knows that she knows all of my fantasies, uh, and I have a lot.

She doesn't have many, but I have a lot. He had to save face in there, and that's obvious. You have to protect your relationship at that point as a guy on the on the other side. It's not like he's gonna be like, Lid's on.

What do you wanna do? Yeah, let's go do naked kitesurfing. Yeah, but yeah, I mean, obviously I checked them out. Well, when he was like, I could teach you how to kite, and I was like, yeah, you could.

There was a point in the night where I grabbed onto a cactus. I was sitting on the table. I like we were having drinks and there was a cactus sitting on the table and I grabbed onto the cactus and I got little cactus things in my hand. So then I kept sucking my thumb, which is really sexy when you're when you're having a drink and being sexy and sucking your thumb.

I think it really sends a signal as help me, mommy. So, but anyway, I don't know how she did it, but she somehow got the person at the restaurant to find tweezers, and then she spent a good 15 minutes or so getting the little stickers out of my hand. And I'm just like, oh my God, this girl is so sweet. This is killing me right now, but not in a sexual way.

Just like her energy is just absolutely adorable anyway, on the off, off, off chance that they are listening to this, guys, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry for for freaking you out, but um, we, we reined it in really hard, yeah, we did, but um, you could have, you could have taken it home tonight. You could have with an undercoat and uh we had separate beds. And you know, you know, but that's how much we respected your space.

So if you, whenever you're ready, we'll meet you back in the deserted town and, uh, yeah, let us know. You know, uh, kind of awkward now that we just said this, and, uh, but you don't ever have to tell us you actually listened. You could lie and just say what podcast? I have no idea what you're talking about.

Oops, my pants fell off. Where's your shower? Even while I was there, I was on the SDCs and the the Cassidy, we're in the middle of nowhere, by the way, so I was like, I wonder who's out here on swing sites, holy shit, you know, I've been doing a lot of the the SDC and Cassidy stuff, um, I don't go near the um the uh SLS stuff because their site doesn't work and um. I, I just, uh, and by the way, if you wanna get on Cassidy or STC please use our link on our page because we make a little bit of a, a commission from it and then we use that commission to pay for our advertisements, for our, uh, for our takeovers and stuff, so it really helps us.

The thing that I've been doing is just reaching out to people who are coming to Cancun, especially guys, because we're looking for guys. To have threesomes so that we can have some threesomes because we enjoy that. Special announcement. Attention, ladies and gentlemen, this is your captain speaking.

Any handsome men who are coming into the Cancun, Playa del Carmen area who are moderately hung and in adequately good shape. Please contact the Room 77 podcast for some really good hot sex. Contact us at room 77life.com. Please attach a photo and something nice about yourself.

And the dates of your availability. Yeah, so we're looking for for some more hookups because it's, it's not the easiest thing in the world here. I, I, I, I'm not complaining, but I'm gonna. The, uh, the amount of people that say Hey, We're coming down like 6 months in advance or something or not even, even it could be a week, 22 weeks, 6 months.

We're coming down. We would love to see you guys, and I, I even warned them. I'm like, you know what, here's the thing, man. A lot of people say this.

You're gonna get to the hotel. You're gonna have a fantastic time there, so. I would hate to ruin your vacation while you're there. No, no, no, no, no, I really wanna see you guys.

And then they, the week comes, the week goes, and crickets ghosted. And the thing is, is it always breaks my heart just a little bit. It does. It hurts my ego.

But the thing that I thought is I I've been reaching out for for the two of us to try to fuck more. That's what it's there for. That's why they built it lifestyle. That's why they built the site.

Yeah, let's use it. If you build it, they will fuck. Right, and I often have this feeling because I see some, some couples up there that I'm incredibly intimidated to reach out to. I almost don't, and then I do because I have to remember this as us being in the lifestyle, we are all.

Insecure and need our egos filled in some way, even all the way back to being an exhibitionist and being like, hey, look at us fuck to picking up that person in the club if it's a vanilla or some people, for some people it's, it's an actual unicorn is their score just getting somebody. Attention even on these websites. Get your egos filled is something that is important to all of us. Remember that it's not about just sitting and waiting for someone to message you because you want your ego filled, because you want that feeling somebody wants me.

Sometimes it takes you to give it to somebody else first. Hey, I'm reaching out to you because you guys look fantastic. And a lot of times what you're rewarded with is, oh my God, how are you guys? I would love to meet you guys.

You look amazing, right? So it's just this important lesson about ego and ego. Inside of this lifestyle because the truth is, is when you're in an ethical nonmonogamous relationship, whether you're 50 or 20 or 30 or whatever, you're never ever gonna stop being a couple that is on Tinder basically we're dating that's what we're doing we're just doing it as a couple. We are perpetually dating that's what we're doing perpetually dating.

So we are perpetually looking for a little bit of ego fill, a little bit of that boost, right? We wanna be told, you're good enough, I'm attracted to you. We're looking for that little bit of adrenaline rush, right? Give that gift to somebody else.

All right, Lauren, I have to go. I'm out of here. All right, you're handsome. Oh, you're really pretty.

Nice one to feel your ego. Oh thank you, but honestly I need it from strangers. Yeah, that's how it works. It's true.

You already know I love you, so it doesn't count anymore. This is a thing about the standard North American thin coated swinger. We need to go outside the pack and receive that acceptance from other packs to, to thrive. To feed, to feed our thin coats, yeah, that's what we hunt for.

Come over to this pack. This pack and that pack wanna meet up. We're having, uh, orgies. All the packs are getting together tonight.

I'm talking about this is how it was in the cave days, you know what I mean? All right, this is going. I was trying. Yeah, you did.

I'll quit. You never know where a genius is gonna be born, Lauren. Maybe. All right, Lauren, that is about it, but we have to get busy back to fucking.

I mean that's the truth. I was in the middle of this finishing editing this and going back to editing us fucking, and once again I start stroking myself the entire time I'm doing it. I know you need to wait and let me jump on top of you. I just have to set up a tripod really fast.

I'm a busy man. I have stuff to do. I can, I can work and stroke at the same time. It's not really a problem.

All right, before we go into shooting our feature film part two, because we have to make plans to go away and do this. Place else. Let's talk about Toronto and how we're gonna bring our sex up there. X Club in Toronto.

When is it, Lauren? It is on June 9th. Make sure to go to XClub.com. Is that the website?

I don't think so. Go to our website or go to our website, find XClub.com, or drive there and buy tickets like you're going to a concert. Get tickets and make sure to be there and we will pet you. We'll touch you.

We'll do. Anything you want. That's not a promise, but it's a sales tactic. So, make sure, get your tickets for June 9th, 69.

You can't forget that. We'll see you there. And people want to get away, they're ready. What do they do?

A lot of people have been asking lately, do you still book travel? And the answer is yes. So when you're ready to go away, let me help you. I'll reward you with a free bikini for five nights, and you can reach me on Facebook at Lauren Reese or on our website at room 77life.com.

com and just email me. I'm ready. I'm here. Now back to us and shooting dirty stuff.

What do you think that we should do next? What is it that you think we should do next that will be stimulating or interesting that both feeds my artistic bone and gets me to come gigantic load? I think that we need to do stuff that's like, I'm liking the public going in public, but maybe it's not necessarily on a beach. Like maybe it's the mall, maybe.

We like are in the car and we just like maybe we park at like really cool spots and that's a good idea because there's so many tourists walking around here and it's just like maybe you know what I mean? Like that's what I keep thinking. Yeah, I mean here's listen, I'm all for it and I actually want to go do it right now sort of um the only problem is this particular town the tourists are like 70 so if I send anybody into cardiac arrest I'd feel a little bit guilty but you know what? I'm down.

Alright everybody, we have to go make dirty videos to make more money to pay for this incredibly insanely expensive mixer that we had delivered to us during this podcast. I'm sure it still sounds different because I still don't know how it works. Alright, hopefully next time we'll talk at you and maybe it'll sound better, maybe it'll sound exactly the same. Maybe we'll buy another mixer.

Depends on how many patreons we get. Bye everyone. Bye. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to go leave a positive review.

For more information, go to room 77life.com. Thanks for stopping by room 77. We had a blast. Now get your clothes and get out.

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