We never advise anyone to push their partner into anything lifestyle related. It’s a team sport, period. If your partner is interested in the concept, but worried about what to expect, we recommend listening to our podcast! We talk to the actual guests in every episode. Some episodes we feature guest interviews about their first trip to Pearl or experience. It is something that will only work when both partners are on the same page and ready for adventure!
You may also have her read some of the “Origin Stories” on our blog so she can see how others started and worked through their swinging adventures. There is one common theme through all of these stories. Their relationship, communication and sex life improved dramatically after entering the swinger lifestyle.