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Opening up to friends – or not.
So my friend asked if we were swingers and I told him we were!
I love talking shit. No, we didn’t come out. I was saying it jokingly to him. I loosen up after I get to know people and he’s been my friend for a long time. Plus, we really haven’t done anything yet, so I don’t even know if we qualify!
We are trying something new and trying to have fun.

Nervous Newbies
by the Southern Yellow band-ers We’re still reeling She and I both “forumed” up, months of research. The Desire experience somehow did exceed expectations, especially

A Whole New World – Part 3
by Jeff & Karen What happened there Being non-swingers we went in with no plans to have sex with anyone else. That lasted all of six

A Whole New World – Part 2
Jeff continues to describe their first trip to Desire in Part 2 of A Whole New World. He discusses seeing their first penis and how it went getting naked for the first time.

Playroom for swingers
Wanna Build a playroom? Jeff and Karen, US My husband and I started going to Desire Resorts about 3 years ago. Each year, we visited the resort between four to five times! Why do we go back so often? Because we love how it makes us a feel as a couple! It brings us closer- makes us feel sexy- takes us away from the kids and the mundane cycle of life! One day we were tipsy in the hot tub at Pearl and we were scheduled to leave the next day. I was dreading

Remove Desire (or other) Ads
You’ve checked out Desire or some other website and now you’re getting ads! Our tech guy has some tips to help rid your work computer of your searches, so you can be secret again.

The Birds, the Bees and the Beekeeper
So what does a beekeeper have to do with a lifestyle blog??? I asked myself that same question when approached. The more

Self Care vs Self Love (and why we need both)
As we enter into this season of February love, let’s take a look at self love vs. self care and why we actually need both!

How easy is it to get from the airport to the hotel?
Desire is a quick 30 minutes or less from the airport and is pretty much a straight shot down the freeway. There are many airport transportation shuttle companies. We have an affiliate link with USA Transfers if you want to purchase your transportation “on the side.” Or you can do it with the Desire reservation during checkout. The airport sits right off the freeway. The freeway is inset from the coast about 1km. Since all hotels are on the beach, you take an exit

How do you tip the bartenders at the jacuzzi or pool when you don’t have any pockets?
We’ve seen some inventive places to hold money that do not include a ‘prison wallet’ option. Hats, sunglasses and sometimes connected to yeti cups.

Is It Busy At Desire Resorts Right Now?
The great thing about Desire Resorts is there are very few weeks of the year that are slow. Maybe one or two in September

When Is High-Season and Low-Season?
High season in Mexico is October through April. Low season starts in May and continues through September. DMCA PROTECTED

Ep. 71: Perfect Hosts with the Perfect Game
We answer the hotline and talk to some newbies and Patreons about bareback cliques and barely thought through pick up lines!

Ep. 70: Going Bareback with Newbies and Patreons
We answer the hotline and talk to some newbies and Patreons about bareback cliques and barely thought through pick up lines!

Ep. 69: Keep Stroking That Ego (In Public)
We search long and hard to find the perfect secluded beach for some exhibitionism.

Ep. 68: Nailing Being Yourself at an Event (and the GM)
We go to the guests of Flirtation to tell you about the event and experience. We learn from guests what they did right!

Ep. 67: Is A Bigger “D” Better in the Lifestyle?
Lauren gets an email and we go deep, deep into it’s discussion…Rapid fire questions are back!

Ep. 66: The Gang Bang Take(me)over Event
What is the ultimate fantasy you have of your partner? We go over ours and sign up willing participants.
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