by Jeff & Karen What happened there Being non-swingers we went in with no plans to have sex with anyone else. That lasted all of six hours. Let me explain. We weren’t expecting to be intimate with another couple, but we weren’t ruling it out. We tried to come up with rules beforehand but could never […]
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We’re in Paris to celebrate Karen’s birthday and we’ve long talked about having some raunchy public sex in one of Paris’ many libertine clubs.
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In this episode, we finish some unfinished business and end up on the right side of the tracks. And Richard’s temperature sensitivity forces us into a week of celibacy.
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So what does a beekeeper have to do with a lifestyle blog??? I asked myself that same question when approached. The more I thought about it the more I realized it really is a sweet pairing and I decided I would type something up to be posted! Most would agree that lifestyle friendly couples strive
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As we enter into this season of February love, let’s take a look at self love vs. self care and why we actually need both!
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Sara backs up our theory: ‘the more expectations you have in the lifestyle, the worse-off you are.’ Read about their recent date at Colette, New Orleans.
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We get into the spirits, some cock ring fights, and talk to Dr. Jeff about why certain alcohols make us crazy. We believe him because…science.
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Jeff continues to describe their first trip to Desire in Part 2 of A Whole New World. He discusses seeing their first penis and how it went getting naked for the first time.
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We check into Desire Riviera Maya as guests and spend two days making sure to get everything in. Richard sustains an injury and goes back for more. We venture out of the house for trouble. Who knew vanilla resorts could be so, not vanilla?
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We’re addicted. We want you to be too. Bikini Addiction was started by a fellow Room 77 Podcast listener who loves teeny bikinis (with the drawers full to prove it.) The story of how the company began is just as cute as the bikini lover herself. A long time buyer of other bikinis, she was
Pleasure Garden Club by: Sex On the Fringe Erin and I are fortunate in that we have three easy options for lifestyle clubs, all of them being about 30 minutes away from our house. Each have their own vibe. We make our decisions about which we want to attend based on our mood and our
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Free bikinis for everyone!! More Temptation talk and Richard seeks Lauren’s advice for better flirting tactics. We talk to Dr. Jeff & Karen about sexy things, ejaculate; and not so sexy, menopause.
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Let me guess – you’re curious about visiting Desire. Why should you care about my opinion? Because my wife, Karen, and I are new. Really new. Like, “completely, 100% new to any lifestyle activity of any sort” new. And our first dip into this pool was a three-day trip to Desire Riviera Maya.
This is the story of how a 22 year happily married couple, @WeMightBeSwingers, journeyed into the swinger life style.
It all started when my naughty wife planned a long overdue vacation for just the two of us. She found a couples only resort in Jamaica that had an interesting twist.
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It’s no secret that I’m addicted to Candy Crush, but I didn’t realize all the lessons learned from playing it until recently. One night the blocks formed a heart shape and it started me thinking, “What has this game made me think about after going through all these levels?”
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We’ve seen some inventive places to hold money that do not include a ‘prison wallet’ option. Hats, sunglasses and sometimes connected to yeti cups. Most people and our personal preference is the “now and then” method. The bartenders stay pretty set for hours at a time. Taking a break from the pool if you’re drinking
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The great thing about Desire Resorts is there are very few weeks of the year that are slow. Maybe one or two in September and around a couple of holidays. The rest of the year both resorts are usually 80% capacity or more.
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High season in Mexico is October through April. Low season starts in May and continues through September.
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www.SwingLifeStyle.com Swing Life Style Community claims to have the largest online swinger community and they may be right. In addition, they provide vast amounts of information and resources for all things about the swinger life style. The site is easy to navigate and a great resource for active swingers.
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SDC is a premier swingers’ community and dating site so when you want access to great blogs, expert advice, videos, podcasts and more, visit the site. Swinger Dating Site (SDC) is the go to place for parties, sponsored hotel takeovers and swinger cruises. The SDC dating community is nationwide. Check out public and private picture
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Kasidie.com is one of the world’s biggest lifestyle social networking and swinger’s dating sites. Design your profile so you can attract and meet like-minded, uninhibited and sexually adventurous couples, singles and groups that can’t wait to meet and play. After creating your own profile with pictures and stories, you’ll gain access to thousands of other
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We never advise anyone to push their partner into anything lifestyle related. It’s a team sport, period. If your partner is interested in the concept, but worried about what to expect, we recommend listening to our podcast! We talk to the actual guests in every episode. Some episodes we feature guest interviews about their first
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Logically, there are so many reasons why we should have stayed far away from the lifestyle. Turns out, all of those are exactly the reasons why the lifestyle was perfect for us, so we jumped in first with a little exhibitionism and bisexuality.
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Desire is a quick 30 minutes or less from the airport and is pretty much a straight shot down the freeway. There are many airport transportation shuttle companies. We have an affiliate link with USA Transfers if you want to purchase your transportation “on the side.” Or you can do it with the Desire reservation
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There is as much or as little as you want to see. There is way less public sex during the day than what people might think. Most of the days guests spend time hanging in the pool and getting to know other couples or playing games with the Playmakers. Sometimes in the daybeds on the
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We get this question more often than one might think. It’s the whole lunch table mindset, “Will I be the only outcast?” Rest assured, if you not participate in the swinger lifestyle you will feel right at home. On any given day Desire Pearl and Desire Riviera Maya will vary between a 60/40 and 40/60
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While cuddling in bed after having great sex one Sunday morning, my husband asked, “What are you thinking about?” Instead of answering with my usual, “Nothing,” I answered honestly, “I was wondering if you ever regret only having sex with me. We are awesome together, but you must fantasize about other women.” That innocent question opened the fantasy floodgates as we began sharing our playful desires with each other.
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Who wouldn’t want to live in the lifestyle? I can’t answer for everyone, but I can honestly tell you for my husband and I, life is more fun. It is more exciting, and we get to be who truly are.
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I’m so honored to be a part of this community and contribute bits and pieces of what I’ve learned in this life thing we all go through. My goal in this little corner of the internet is to encourage every reader to give themselves permission to live a life that nourishes their mind, body and soul.
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