Who wouldn’t want to live in the lifestyle? I can’t answer for everyone, but I can honestly tell you for my husband and I, life is more fun. It is more exciting, and we get to be who truly are.
Who wouldn’t want to live in the lifestyle? Read More »
I’m so honored to be a part of this community and contribute bits and pieces of what I’ve learned in this life thing we all go through. My goal in this little corner of the internet is to encourage every reader to give themselves permission to live a life that nourishes their mind, body and soul.
Don’t spread yourself too thin! Read More »
We go back to Desire with a new objective and fail miserably!! We come to terms with the end of our podcast, our lives, and our marriage.
Ep. 25: How To Be A First-Timer at Desire Resorts Read More »
Wanna Build a playroom? Jeff and Karen, US My husband and I started going to Desire Resorts about 3 years ago. Each year, we visited the resort between four to five times! Why do we go back so often? Because we love how it makes us a feel as a couple! It brings us closer-
Playroom for swingers Read More »
So my friend asked if we were swingers and I told him we were!
I love talking shit. No, we didn’t come out. I was saying it jokingly to him. I loosen up after I get to know people and he’s been my friend for a long time. Plus, we really haven’t done anything yet, so I don’t even know if we qualify!
We are trying something new and trying to have fun.
Opening up to friends – or not. Read More »
My husband and I are mid thirties, married for 13 years, and high school sweethearts. After 20 years of a hot sex life (well maybe not the entire time) we are now in the lifestyle. A few years back we started entertaining the thought of a threesome and exploring bisexuality.
Exploring Bisexuality At Desire Pearl Read More »
Lauren and Richard venture out to Temptation Resorts in Cancun and forget how to check into a hotel and be social. We get invited to drink champagne
It’s possible that Lauren is being stalked by the owner of the local print shop. Richard almost received a handshake instead of a grope that he was hoping for, but was ultimately touched…
Ep. 23: How To Advertise You’re ‘Open For Sex’ at Desire Resorts’ Jacuzzi Read More »
It’s the first anniversary of our Tulum kidnapping, this time we’re trafficked to Isla Mujeres where Lauren goes illegally topless…
Ep. 22: How To Be Teased Until You Go Crazy at Desire Resorts Read More »
Lauren gets laryngitis and leaves Richard to fend for himself in the Desire wild.Richard and Lauren have an embarrassing “first”…
Ep. 21: Pack It In, Pack It Out While Camping at Desire Swinger Podcast Read More »
Is it okay to “penis stare” and if so, for how long can I look? Also, an accurate description of how guys talk in a locker room about their junk…
Ep. 20: Raging Homoerotic Hormones and on Call with the Doctor – Swinger Podcast Read More »
Girl Camp! While Lauren convinces her mother we don’t do porn, Richard signs us up for a porn shoot…
Ep. 19: A Pile of Girls on Girls on Girls…and Your Mom – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We stay out late on a school night with the @SwingerDiaries gang. Richard is gifted a rock with no instructions…
Ep. 18: Put That Rock In Your Vagina & Go Find My T-Shirt! – Swinger Podcast Read More »
1. Richard brings the sexy back! (for five seconds in a jacuzzi bed)
2. Lauren eagerly goes to Location B and channels her inner 1/16 Cherokee Indian heritage while Richard gets fucked.
3. We launch Project Yellow Band with the perfect hosts Sarah Clayton.
Ep. 17: Didn’t Peg Him for the Pegging Type – Swinger Podcast Read More »
Richard and Lauren laugh about the Rippin and the Tearin. We talk more with Dr. Jeff and Karen. Rich finds out if his heart is healthy enough for sex.
Ep. 16: Anal With Doctors Who Snort Viagra (Part II) – Swinger Podcast Read More »
Getting back to work, we go completely blank. Vagina, what is that again?
A triple blowjob at the jacuzzi turns into a five some. Lauren misses the train.
We call our doctor to settle the debate on whether or not squirting is urine.
Rapid-fire interviews from Desire guests on safe sex, sexual slips, and squirting.
Ep. 15: Going Bareback With Doctors Who Squirt (Part I) – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We go to dinner with friends and she confesses some dark, taboo fantasies. During a cold call interview, we encourage a listener to get arrested in a Wal-Mart parking lot. Lauren builds a game to test Richard’s thespian skills. We go on a “staycation” away from Desire to a fancy resort and are forced to
Ep. 14: Roofies, Reviews, & Rapey Ray – Swinger Podcast Read More »
Tinder turned Richard into a self-mutilating insane person.
A special 48 Hours Dateline Edition: Dyer Desire “Lauren’s (Almost) Murder”.
Even after 16 years in the lifestyle, we can’t avoid crazy.
Ep. 13: Stay Away From My Husband’s C@ck! – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We discuss secrets, and keeping them, inside of the lifestyle.
We explore “cruising.” It’s not just for gay men anymore!
Discover our origin story and how we use our superpowers at Desire Resorts for good (sometimes bad, oops!)
Featured interview with a couple about how they live out in the open and prefer to be sapiosexual.
Ep. 12: Exposing Our Privates To Strangers | An Origin Story Read More »
We do bad things to good people and how corrupting lifestyle virgins brought back memories of when we first began.
The good and bad of hotel takeovers.
We create our own Disco Inferno.
We hear from Fred & Claire about their first experience in the lifestyle and their favorite part may surprise you!
Featured interviews with guests about first experiences. And we hear from guests how popular swinger podcasts are becoming!
Ep. 11: First Timers, Old Timers, & Vanilla Resort Refugees – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We discuss problems in having a foursome when the line between pleasure and pain gets blurry.
We talk to Ian, a vanilla “muggle,” who looks forward to getting into the lifestyle solely for more sex than he’s having now.
We talk about our growing number of friends in the lifestyle and how they are outnumbering our vanilla friends. What is it about the bond between lifestyle friends?
Featured interviews with both our vanilla and lifestyle friends. Couples answer whether they would choose a “Lifestyle or Vanilla Friend” in our rapid-fire interviews.
Ep. 10: Screwing Your Friends & Anal Candy for Ian – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We talk about the video shoot they did with Playmaker “Panther” and our girlfriend Milly for social media.
Lauren get’s into her first celebrity beef over blowjobs.
Ep. 9: Hotter, Younger, Tanner… Blowjobs For Everyone! – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We talk about safety in Mexico, deflate the media’s fear tactics, and address questions we hear repeatedly at the resort.
Richard lets it all out after experiencing and witnessing enough man-hating men try to talk to women.
We talk to #ourlistener about their first trip to Desire and watching the relationship evolve before their eyes!
Lauren shares her thoughts on single men in the jacuzzi!
Featured interviews: A story of a foursome FAIL which spawned the phrase “Angry Dolphin” and the definition of it.
Ep. 8: Is Mexico Safe with Man-Hating Men & Angry Dolphins? – Swinger Podcast Read More »
Richard shares what boggles his mind when it comes to poolside fashion.
Richard almost gets into a naked spa fight over a hot girl who wants to take a shower with him.
We question fetish vs. attraction after a hook-up.
Lauren crushes on a day pass visitor, Richard sets them up for some alone time.
Featured interview: A couple on the “fringe” discusses why they stay in the soft-swap category and what makes it so special.
Ep. 7: Spa Shenanigans, Short Shirts, Smitten & Shot-down – Swinger Podcast Read More »
Get a glimpse into our sense of humor as we illustrate part of Ep. 7 with different photos. We hope you enjoy! And as always, get the rest of the episode on our website or your favorite podcast app. –LnR
Room 77 Podcast | Slidecast “Mexico Is Hard” Read More »
We share what we’ve learned from non-lifestyle couples, but disagree that they may still fall somewhere within the lifestyle spectrum. We discuss Part II – Tulum and reveal the ending to our Kidnapped In Mexico story. We launch “Project Airtight.” L shares her prep strategy, what role R will play, and her plans to audition
Ep. 6: The Most Popular Flavor At Desire May Be Vanilla – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We spend time with some podcasters and their followers at Desire Pearl and play another round of the Let’s Not Get Divorced game with Brian and Lisa Jones. We answer an email from #ourlistener and offer our expert advice, giving birth to our new segment “You’re Welcome.” We discuss threesomes and foursomes, meet a cute couple that is
Ep. 5: Threesomes For Some, Foursomes For Others – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We attend a Desire wedding. We crush on the same girl until L cock blocks R. R almost dies from a cold, but the show must go on. We hook up with full-swap, non-swinger swingers! Wait, what? And then play “Let’s not get divorced!” We confirm and/or dispel rumors about Desire Resorts with True or
Ep. 4: Slap Her On The (Censored) – Swinger Podcast Read More »
We celebrate an anniversary and a night out with imaginary girlfriends, Desire Playmaker Anna and Playboy Playmate Veronica Flores. We also hear about how couples sometimes live in a grey area of lifestyle labels and the possibility of ‘coming out’. What are the ramifications? We discuss playing with a couple which was three years cumming;
Ep. 3: Happy Anniversary! I Heard You Were A Swinger – Swinger Podcast Read More »